For many parents, there will come a point where you will inevitably hear your kids say, “Can we get a puppy?” That can be a difficult question to answer.
After all, any living thing will come with a lot of responsibility. Important factors need to be considered before purchasing/adopting a dog to ensure having a pet will fit the lifestyle of its new home and family. With that in mind, here are some things to consider that may help you with your decision.
Pros and Cons to Getting a Dog
Pros:
- Loyal for life
- Great for teaching kids about responsibility
- A companion to talk to and play with
Cons:
- They are a lot of responsibility
- Most parents end up caring for their kids’ animals
- It can be devastating when something bad happens to it
Choosing A Pet Dog – Finding The Right One For You
Consider the following:
- What is your lifestyle like? If you are gone all day, that means your new furry friend will be indoors and alone for that time. In that case, it’s best to choose a breed of dog that is docile and doesn’t need as much one-on-one attention.
- Safety of the pet (and your child) – Kids under the age of five may not comprehend that a puppy is a fragile thing. They need to be old enough to understand that they shouldn’t scream, pinch, poke, or yank the animal. The pet should also be trained not to jump, scratch, or bite.
- Side note: keep in mind that many dogs have sharp claws and teeth. Even when they don’t mean to, they can hurt your child. Therefore, supervising the interaction between child and dog is advised
- Temperment of the dog – Hyperactive children need dogs that can handle remaining calm. You’ll also want to do research into the breed you choose to ensure they won’t be overly territorial towards your child to avoid issues with other children and visitors. Recommended reading: The 10 Best Dogs for Kids and Families
What Age is Best to Get a Dog?
As long as you understand that you will likely have to take care of the pet for the most part, between ages five and 10 are ideal for introducing your child to dog ownership. However, if your child is angry and aggressive, it’s better to begin with a “starter” pet like a gerbil or fish that doesn’t require as much care in the beginning.
Consider bringing them to a shelter and playing with the animals to get them used to being around dogs as well. And, if you have friends or family, start teaching them how to engage with animals. In time, you will see how they will act with a pet of their own, and be better equipped to make the decision of when they are ready to get a family dog.
More resources to help you decide when to get a dog:
- Children and Dogs: Important Information for Parents
- Top Tips for Introducing a Puppy to Your Family
- 15 Reasons Why You Should Get Your Kid A Dog
- 6 signs your kid is ready for a dog
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